Parents are encouraged to back their children's talents, ambitions, and dreams rather than forcing upon them a preferred profession.
A 2021 survey conducted by Joblist revealed that 48 percent of individuals believed their parents had a significant impact on shaping their career paths. Additionally, nearly 40 percent reported feeling compelled to adhere to their parents' professional guidance.
This often leads to disappointment and unmet expectations in the children.
Mr Adeyemi Ajayeoba, an educator, cautioned that this situation could impede children from achieving their intended objectives and potentially ruin their prospects for the future.
At the graduation ceremony for Great Standard Montessori Model School in Abeokuta, Ajayeoba delivered a speech.
He stated, "Do not sabotage the futures of your children just because certain parents wish for their personal ambitions to take precedence. Some kids aspire to become teachers, yet many parents often respond with 'No, I prefer having a doctor or wanting an Army General at home,' thus dissuading those children from pursuing their true desires."
If your child decides to pursue a career as a teacher, a lawyer, or anything else they aspire to be, we should support them as their parents.
During his speech, Tiwalade Akingbade, who serves as the school’s chairman, urged parents and guardians not to let economic challenges be an excuse and emphasized the importance of providing their children with a high-quality education.
Career: Don't Ruin Your Children's Future - Expert Warns Parents
